Don't Forget to smile
Don't Forget to smile
There are only two types of people in this world. You’re either a giver or a taker.
Givers, give freely and have their entire lives.
Takers are in it for the moment and they seldom cross over.
Everything they do for others is a challenge or drama…….. everything.
They need constant recognition or praise to feed their ego, or low self esteem.
Two givers can be a couple or married for a lifetime with few challenges.
Takers can marry a giver, however, they will struggle their entire marriage for balance.
Two takers will end a relationship the moment a challenges arises, or end in divorce
because there is little compromise, if any. Takers are here for themselves only. Once
your benefit leaves them, they move on to their next victim. You should know within
the first few dates if you have a giver or a taker.
Givers are always trying to one up the other partner in kindness. If you don’t have a giver, release the taker and find one. If you’re a taker, look through the window at yourself and ask one question. “Would I put up with what I’m offering others”. Some takers only change when you demand it, however, by then it’s over and everyone really knows it.
"Know your limits, because takers don’t have any!"
-Mary Denker